Just Rhian and Rhaine: Why siblings are forever best friends?

I don’t have best friend today aside from for my husband and my sisters, but when I was younger I used to have 2 best friends. One is my kababata and the other one is from my high school years, but sad to say something came up kaya nagkatampuhan kami and the rest is history. Now, we’re still good friends naman.

I have 2 siblings, we were 3 girls in the family and I consider them as my barkada. Andyan yung naghihiraman kami ng damit, shoes and bag. Perks of having sister is that meron ka rin kasama mag window shopping and gumala, although we have different group of friends we still enjoy each other’s company. Minsan may schedule pa kung sino ang manlilibre sa amin every time na gagala kami and because I have sisters, I will always have a friends.  I remember my mom nung bata pa kami gusto nya pare-pareho kaming 3 ng damit, tuwang tuwa sya every time na nakikita nya kaming ganon, actually sa kanya ko nga rin narining na ang sarap ng may anak na babae kasi meron kang “Human Doll”.

When I got pregnant with Rhaine, it was unexpected. I don’t want to get pregnant by that time, Rhian is just 1year old and I want to spend more time with her, but God has another plan for us. He gave us another blessing and that is our bunso. It was a roller coaster ride when I was pregnant with Rhaine, pero nalagpasan naming mag asawa yun, from post-partum depression to money problems, lahat nakayanan namin. God is good all the time.

As they grow older, I can see that they are different with each other, si Rhian is like her father na tahimik, napipirmi sa isang lugar, mabusisi while Rhaine is di mapakali sa isang lugar, mas matapang sa ate nya, medyo emotional and madaling umiyak like me. They may be as different as sun and the moon, but the same blood flows through both of their heart. Both of them are very sweet and loving lalo na pag nakakauwi na ko from work and pag naglalambing sila before going to sleep na ayaw na nilang humiwalay sa tabi ko.

A best friend is a gift in life, but sisters share an unmatched bond. 

Minsan nag aaway, pero madalas maglambingan. Rhian really love her sister, pag may kinakain sya she make sure to give the half or portion of it to Rhaine, she is also concern with her little sister let’s say tumatalon sa kama si Rhaine, you will see Rhian on her side telling “Rhaine, bawal yan, mapilayan ka cge.”. Every time we read books at night, Rhaine will seat beside her ate. Ang saya lang nilang tingnan, parang they cannot live without each other.

There is no better friend than a sister. And there is no better sister than you. 

When it comes to their #OOTD, I like to dress them up, ang cute kasi nilang tingnan pag magkapareho sila. sometimes Rhian will ask kung anong susuotin ni Rhaine kasi gusto nya same sila, and now I’m so addicted in twinning (mother and daughter dress). In fact, I ordered 2 set of clothes na magkakapareho kami and will wear it soon. I don’t worry too much about their old clothes as we can give it to my niece.

One of the most understated of relationships is having sister, because they have strongest bonds any girl can have and it makes a girl much happier. Do you agree with me? A sister always comes as a blessing in a person’s life, they will support each other each step of life and they are best friends for life. There will be fights and patch ups but those are remembered for life.

Sisters for Life, Best Friend Forever

Seeing them growing together is priceless. They stick with each other wherever they go, forever playmates, and no matter how many times Rhian makes fun of Rhaine, she will always have her back to her sister, I hope this continues the rest of their lives.